We're (way) over 40. Deal with it.
Wednesday, November 14th, 2018
Growing up, every little girl has at least one baby doll she can love and nurture. Besides being just another toy, the baby doll is often the beginning of her training for motherhood. As adults, millions of women give birth and thousands and thousands more desperately try to. But many, many women never conceive and many never even try. They are told, again and again, that being childless (or, more starkly, “barren”) will burden them with regrets forever.
I’m still waiting for those regrets. (more…)
Tags: barren, biological clock, childless, motherhood, parenthood, procreation, women, women over 40
Posted in Family | 3 Comments »
Monday, May 7th, 2018
Have you heard about the movement made up of guys who apparently can’t get a date and certainly can’t get a woman to sleep with them [I’m not using the term they use because I don’t want to become a target myself.]? Some call it “aggrieved entitlement.” They believe they are victims of a grand feminist conspiracy that isn’t just terribly unfair, but practically illegal. In our day, we had another name for them. Losers. (more…)
Tags: dating, losers, men, nerds, women, women over 40
Posted in men | 6 Comments »
Thursday, January 4th, 2018
Picture this: I’m somewhere, in a situation with a really sexy guy and I am so turned on that I know what’s coming. But then… The guilt clicks in. Oh did I mention? This is a dream. Yes, a dream. So, tell me. Why is it that I can’t enjoy a good, honest to God sexy dream without feeling guilty?
Tags: cheating, differences between men and women, dreams, erotic, marriage, midlife crisis, women over 40
Posted in men, Relationships | 5 Comments »
Tuesday, May 2nd, 2017
HSAM or Highly Superior Autobiographical Memory is the unique ability to remember virtually everything from every day in your life. I’m convinced that I have at least a version of this because I never, ever forget. Not the words to cartoon theme songs from the 1960s. Not what you said to me on the first day of school. Yup. I remember it all. . . well, most. And I may seem to forgive you. . . But, believe me. I do not forget.
Tags: bad haircuts, forget, forgive, Memory, old boyfriends, women over 40
Posted in My Pet Peeves, Socializing | No Comments »
Monday, February 6th, 2017
Guys hit. But girls hit where it really hurts. . . in the feelings. And sometimes, when you’ve been hit over and over it’s hard not to hit someone else, even if they had nothing to do with your pain.
Or, maybe you’re just a bitch. (more…)
Tags: bitch, drama queen, name calling, slut shaming, women over 40, women over 50
Posted in My Pet Peeves | 1 Comment »