We're (way) over 40. Deal with it.
Wednesday, September 12th, 2012
Every wanted to go back in time and slap yourself? Not me. Everything I’ve done, every relationship I started/ended, every decision I’ve made was right, right, right.
Not.
Oh, yes, when I think back to college and beyond (but not as far back as high school, because we were all idiots back then), I did some pretty stupid things and I put up with some pretty lousy guys. Alas, I can’t go back in time. But if I could, I would give myself an earful. (more…)
Tags: Advice, advice to myself, bad decisions, going back in time, over 50, Relationships, women over 40, women over 50
Posted in Relationships | 3 Comments »
Sunday, December 6th, 2009
We’ve probably all gone through life with people telling us what not to do: don’t cross in the middle of the block (Romper Room), don’t throw matches into the woods (Smokey the Bear), don’t drink and drive (your parents – hopefully). Much of this advice is good; some is not. My question is, when do you ignore advice, even if it comes from well-meaning people? And what happens when you do? (more…)
Tags: Advice, college, dating, drinking, driving, Politics, women over 40
Posted in Socializing | 2 Comments »
Tuesday, November 3rd, 2009
We all have them. Little secrets that we try so hard to hide. Now I’m coming out of the closet, so to speak, and sharing mine. Okay, not all of my secrets; I’m not crazy. But enough to maybe get you to share yours, too.
Tags: Advice, clothes, dirty laundry, friends, men, secrets, the sexes
Posted in Grooming | 7 Comments »
Tuesday, July 7th, 2009
How often has this happened to you? Your phone rings at 11 PM, 3 AM or 6 AM (whatever constitutes the middle of the night for you) and it’s your friend, in the middle of a crisis. No, not an emergency, like a car accident – – a crisis, like her boyfriend just broke up with her. Or maybe she just realized he’s probably been cheating on her. And she wants your advice.
Not. (more…)
Tags: abusive relationships, Advice, cheaters, friends, insanity, men, Relationships
Posted in Relationships | 4 Comments »