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Thursday, January 28th, 2010
Yes, this is a blatant effort to get traffic to this blog, but I really am going to talk about sex; who wants it, what else can light up your brain the same way, and other random thoughts. (more…)
Tags: divorce, Haiti, Kristof, passive aggressive, selflessness, sex, sex drive, sex life, vibrator, witholding sex
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Wednesday, July 29th, 2009
I want to talk about sex, and one very important part of sex – especially for women – is fantasies. And, yes, rape (or simply being overpowered by a man) is a common fantasy. Accept it. Here’s what I’ve learned: real rape – something none of us want – is about a man exerting power. Fantasy rape, on the other hand, is about being so desirable that your fantasy man has to have you, no matter what. And you, as the victim, can’t be held responsible. Or it might actually be your way of being in control – after all, it’s your fantasy. It’s not only perfectly normal to have this fantasy; it’s one lots of women have. So, don’t feel guilty or disturbed or dirty if you have rape fantasies. Okay – you can feel dirty. That’s the idea of a fantasy anyway. (more…)
Tags: boomers, fantasy, Kegels, men, orgasm, sex drive, sexual fantasies, The Pill
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