March 28th, 2012
Ever wonder why men run the world? After all, when we were in high school and even college, males were the last people you would rely on to be responsible for anything. Even now, all you have to do is look at the “wonders” that engineers (mostly male) have come up with, like highway jug handles that create 10 minute bottlenecks on your way to work because they never considered the way traffic actually happens (if you don’t know what a jug handle is, you’re not from NJ). But, here they are, in charge of just about everything, from government to business, and we sit here and wonder “How the hell did that happen?” Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: baby boomers, changing the world, Lysistrata, men over 40, the power women have over men, withholding sex, woman power, women over 40, women's health
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March 15th, 2012
Here’s the thing – men get vilified in the press for being jerks, just like women do (case in point: Sarah Palin). And their sexual exploits (e.g. Anthony Weiner) are lambasted and ridiculed. But have you ever heard of a man being labeled loose or cheap or whorish? No; the word for them is. . . Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: being held to a different standard, cassanova, gigolo, harlot, men over 40, men vs. women, sexual impropriety, sexual innuendo, tramp, why are women called sluts, women over 40
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March 7th, 2012
Yeah, we’ve all known some; those Mr. Not So Rights who make our lives miserable. But that’s not the point of this post. My goal is to make you all think about when we can’t all get Mr. Right, should we really fight to get Mr. Not So Right? How do these relationships usually end up? They end – down. Which is to say, not in a good way. Because “winning” anything is a really bad way to start a relationship. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: bad relationships, marriage, men over 40, Mr. Right, Relationships, trying to win the guy, when is winning the guy the wrong thing to do, women over 40
Posted in Relationships | 1 Comment »
February 25th, 2012
I feel like I’m dead.
No – it’s not a health thing; it’s all good. Let me back up and tell you what I believed as a kid. When you’re 7 or 8 there are so many things you don’t understand that people can convince you of the most absurd things. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: Babedom, finding info, information super highway, men over 40, secrets kids tell, stories kids make up, things we believe, women over 40
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February 10th, 2012
Maybe this has more to do with being from a family of 8 than being a woman over 40, but I can’t stand when Gary decides the peanut butter jar is empty when it clearly isn’t. Just now, I noticed he’d left a jar on the counter. “Are we out of peanut butter?” I asked. “Yeah,” he answered, never even acknowledging – as a little side note – that he had emptied it a couple of hours ago and it was still on the counter. Whatever. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: Babedom, beyond babedom, food, food hoarding, men over 40, pantries, wasting food, women over 40, women's issues
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