July 8th, 2012
When you’re my age – and when I say “a woman over 40” I mean a woman way over 40 – you can sometimes look back to a single event that has changed the rest of your life. This past week, one of those events came back to haunt me. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: decisions, men over 40, mistakes, mistakes I've made, Mom's decision, women over 40
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July 1st, 2012



Love the beach? Or do you just love looking like you’ve been there? Whichever, getting a tan is probably one of the top leisure activities in the country. And, yes, I know it isn’t necessarily a burning issue – although for the uninformed, it sure is (pardon the pun). Nonetheless, I am going to share my secrets of being a professional tanner. And you are wrong, wrong, wrong if you think you “have to burn first” before you tan. But more on that later.
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Tags: getting a tan safely, grooming, how to get a great tan, sun tan, tanning, women over 40, women over 50
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June 22nd, 2012

What’s the difference between a 23 year old woman and one of us over-40-going-on-retirement? I’ll tell you what. They don’t know what they’ve got; we think we still got it. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: Ageing, Babedom, beauty, getting older, men over 40, women and looks, women approaching 60, women over 40, youth
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June 12th, 2012


Yes; I watch Glee. And I’m not ashamed. Deal with it. It makes me think of when I was in high school and how important my friends were back then. Not just important; they were the MOST important thing to me. How many of us still have those kind of intense, symbiotic relationships? Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: Babedom, best friends, friends, friendship, men over 40, Relationships, women over 40
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June 1st, 2012
You cannot judge a book by its cover. Sometimes those old sayings make a lot of sense. Maybe not the ones my father used to say, like “You sound like a girl with a paper asshole.” But the ones you’ve heard so often that you don’t know what they mean anymore. So you misquote them. My late friend Diann will claim that “He ran around with his head cut off,” leaving out the “like a chicken with. . . ” part. Which always gave me a chuckle. And my friend Lori says “It’s a doggy dog world.” Which, if you come to my house, might be true. But the older I get (and I’m well beyond being a woman over 40), the more I understand why you truly cannot judge any book by it’s cover. Except maybe romance novels.
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Tags: Babedom, beyond babedom, blonde jokes, judging a book by its cover, men over 40, old sayings, trust, women over 40
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