Comments on: You Hated Me? Thanks! We're (way) over 40. Deal with it. Sun, 14 Jan 2018 22:24:15 +0000 hourly 1 By: Terri Sun, 14 Jun 2009 14:20:05 +0000 Definitely! If nothing else, they are the ones who will really appreciate the way you look in a new outfit. It can be a good conversation starter. Especially if you hit a good sale. You could be talking for 20 minutes about the great new top you just bought that you absolutely LOVE! A man won’t even notice that you have a new top unless you tell him and then all you will get is “It’s nice,” which of course could really mean “It’s hideous.”