Comments on: Renaissance Man http://beyondbabedom.com/renaissance-man/ We're (way) over 40. Deal with it. Sun, 14 Jan 2018 22:24:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.8.5 By: Lucille Lo Sapio http://beyondbabedom.com/renaissance-man/comment-page-1/#comment-2440 Tue, 15 Feb 2011 15:36:41 +0000 http://beyondbabedom.com/?p=1163#comment-2440 Not entirely lost. I have influenced several, subtle changes in him. He’s even acknowledged as much. But those changes came about gradually, because he wanted them. I just gently leaned on him, so to speak.

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By: terri http://beyondbabedom.com/renaissance-man/comment-page-1/#comment-285 Tue, 06 Apr 2010 20:31:37 +0000 http://beyondbabedom.com/?p=1163#comment-285 We know logically, that it’s impossible for them to change. That if we just resign ourselves to the fact that they are what they are and the sooner we realize that and just accept it, the easier our lives will be. Unfortunately, we are woman, and we don’t. We continue to try to change them. I’ve been trying for 13 years. I keep thinking I will wear him down eventually, but nope! He just digs his heels in deeper! LOL Stubborn!

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By: Camille http://beyondbabedom.com/renaissance-man/comment-page-1/#comment-279 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 21:00:22 +0000 http://beyondbabedom.com/?p=1163#comment-279 It’s a lost cause. How long have you been married?

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By: Marie http://beyondbabedom.com/renaissance-man/comment-page-1/#comment-278 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 15:46:33 +0000 http://beyondbabedom.com/?p=1163#comment-278 I’ve never heard about this phenomenon but marriage I thought was about togetherness and companionship I didn’t get that instead I was left alone and feeling left out. I didn’t try to change him and I lost him to another. Lesson learned, but I think people have to want to change in order for success otherwise its fruitless.

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